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5 Sacrifices You May Have to Make When Following Your Inner Voice

Filed in Finding & Following Your Voice, When Writing Is Hard by on May 20, 2011 0 Comments • views: 335
5 Sacrifices You May Have to Make When Following Your Inner Voice

Let’s face it—following your inner voice doesn’t always translate immediately into joy and bliss. A lot of times it can make you feel downright uncomfortable. Taking action to pursue your calling will help you find meaning in life and bring you a deep sense of satisfaction, but it’s also likely to cause you some anxiety […]

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Check With Your Inner Voice Before Marriage

Filed in Finding & Following Your Voice, Who Supports Your Writing Dreams? by on May 16, 2011 0 Comments • views: 364
Check With Your Inner Voice Before Marriage

Why do people get married? Our current divorce rate of about 50 percent in the United States predicts that one out of every two marriages will end in divorce. So what makes one couple think they can beat the odds? What makes them want to try? Asking yourself these questions before marriage may help increase […]

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Channel Your Inner Wild Cat

Filed in Finding & Following Your Voice, The Inner Life by on May 13, 2011 0 Comments • views: 487
Channel Your Inner Wild Cat

The new movie African Cats, released a few weeks ago on Earth Day, follows the story of two families struggling to survive on the African savannah—one, an aged mother lion named Layla and her daughter; and two, a strong mother cheetah and her five cubs. There’s a lot to commend about this movie, mostly the […]

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All That Matters is Doing the Work

Filed in Finding & Following Your Voice, The Writing Life by on May 11, 2011 0 Comments • views: 321
All That Matters is Doing the Work

Today was a good day. Why? Because after a couple days of being away, I spent two hours working on my novel. I had to travel over the weekend. The pace and requirements of my schedule made it near impossible to focus on writing, and during the few hours that I could manage it, I […]

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The Secret Saboteur That’s Stalling Your Success

Filed in Finding & Following Your Voice by on May 9, 2011 0 Comments • views: 410
The Secret Saboteur That’s Stalling Your Success

If you’re like most of us, you have a naysayer in your head. You know the one—he’s always making you say things like “I just don’t have time,” and “I’m not very good at that,” and “That would never work,” and “I just don’t know how.” You’ve heard about him before. Yes, he tears down […]

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Whatever It Is, It Shapes You

Filed in Finding & Following Your Voice, When Writing Is Hard by on May 6, 2011 0 Comments • views: 491
Whatever It Is, It Shapes You

I hear people all the time say the words, “I can’t.” I can’t leave my job right now, because I have too many bills. I can’t change my relationship, because he/she just won’t change anyway, and I can’t leave, because, well, we’ve been together too long and there are the kids to consider. I can’t […]

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The Back Door to the Inner Voice of Confidence

Filed in When Writing Is Hard by on May 4, 2011 2 Comments • views: 598
The Back Door to the Inner Voice of Confidence

I just finished a performance tonight at an awards concert. I accompanied my French horn student, who was the winner of a scholarship competition. I was a little nervous, as it’s been a long time since I’ve played on stage. I’ve been a musician for decades, soloing in high school and college and leading the […]

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Suicide of the Self

Filed in Your Purpose as a Writer by on May 2, 2011 0 Comments • views: 399
Suicide of the Self

When I was growing up, I loved to listen to Barry Manilow. Call me square. I probably was. One of my favorites was one of Barry’s greatest hits, “Copacabana.” It was the beat that first attracted me, but as I grew older, the story came to life in my imagination, and I found myself wondering […]

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The Voice of Resistance is NOT the Real Inner Voice

Filed in Finding & Following Your Voice, When Writing Is Hard by on April 29, 2011 0 Comments • views: 371
The Voice of Resistance is NOT the Real Inner Voice

Steven Pressfield wrote in his book The War of Art that resistance with a capital “R” raises its ugly head anytime we try to pursue something that calls to us from our higher nature. Such activities, he says, may include any calling in any creative art, any diet or health regime, any program of spiritual […]

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5 Ways to Gain the Freedom to Follow Your Inner Voice

Filed in Finding & Following Your Voice by on April 27, 2011 0 Comments • views: 326
5 Ways to Gain the Freedom to Follow Your Inner Voice

There’s a lot of talk in today’s culture about how if you follow your inner voice—or think positive thoughts—the money will follow. This has led a lot of people to believe that all you need to succeed is a positive attitude and faith in yourself, but that can be a dangerous point of view. Let’s […]

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127 Hours of True Isolation

Filed in When Writing Is Hard by on April 25, 2011 0 Comments • views: 461
127 Hours of True Isolation

I finally got a chance to see the movie 127 Hours a couple weeks ago. After all the accolades I was looking forward to finally getting a chance to share in what everyone was talking about—the amazing story of this young man who cut off his own arm to survive in the middle of the […]

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Can Today’s Kids Hear Their Inner Voices?

Filed in Finding & Following Your Voice by on April 22, 2011 0 Comments • views: 323
Can Today’s Kids Hear Their Inner Voices?

A friend commented today on a recent trip she took with her son. Typically, on long drives, she and her husband take the vehicle with the DVD player in it so the boy can watch movies or play video games. Recently, however, the player malfunctioned, and so far they haven’t taken the time or money […]

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